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Tuesday, 16 August 2016

You’re not worthless,

Think about your parents when you think that you’re worthless.
If you’re worthless, you wouldn’t be here.
You wouldn’t read this letter nor write it. 

You’re not stupid, you’re just confused.
Do not blame yourself for any wrongdoings you did.
People make mistakes. 

You’re not that ugly, you’re actually pretty.
You’re not that fat, you’re just a little bit chubby.
It’s okay to be a little bit different than others.
That is because you’re unique. 

It’s okay to be sad, even just for a moment.
It’s okay to cry, you’re not a robot.
You have feelings, and people hurt them. 

Even though they hurt you, forgive them.
Do not, just DON’T hold grudges against them.
Remember? People make mistakes. 

It’s okay to compliment yourself,
That is completely okay.
Because if it isn’t you, then who else? 

Don’t be too hopeful,
You are going to be disappointed.


Be good to others,
But don’t trust them wholeheartedly.
You are in 2016.
I mean 2016 duh, don’t expect everyone to be so honest with you.
Even you keep lying to yourself.
But that’s your way to console yourself, so yeah okay lah. 

Whenever someone said bad things to you,
Just reply them with a smile.
Show them that whatever they said doesn’t affect you at all.
Even though, it does affect you a little bit.
But that’s okay, clock is ticking, time is passing by, you’ll eventually forget them. 

Forgive yourself and love yourself.
If you don’t love yourself, who else will?

You need to love yourself first.
You also need to forgive yourself.
You’ve been lying a lot.
Even though most of the time, you are saying the truth.
That’s okay, they don’t have to know about the truth. 

Never show them your true personality,
Neither your true mask.
It’s only you and the mirror can see it.
If you show it to others, they’ll laugh at you.
People don’t like weak people, they think it’s stupid.
They think you’re stupid.
So don’t you ever dare to show the true you to others. 

You are you.  

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